Save this and send it to a parent friend: 1. Understanding Secrets vs. Surprises vs. Privacy • Secrets: Teach children that secrets are never okay if they make someone feel scared, nervous, sad, or confused. Example explanation: “If a friend tells you something that feels heavy or unsafe, that’s a signal it’s not a secret to keep. Keeping that secret could stop them from getting the help they need.” Similarly, tell your kids: “If someone asks you to keep a secret about something they’ve done or